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The following are letters written by Compeer Volunteers
& Friends about their friendships:
- MaryAnn & Juanita
Through volunteering at Skyland Trail I learned
of the Compeer program about a year ago. Compeer "matched"
me in March 2003 with Juanita, a lady about my age
who is warm and friendly, and loves to talk & share.
Juanita and I are very compatible. We usually try
to get together two times a week. It is always something
we both look forward to.
We enjoy movies, theater, Atlanta Symphony, the High
Museum....and her favorite restaurant: Krystal! We're
looking forward to walking tours and other outside
activities in the warmer weather ahead. Also I take
her to doctors' appointments and on shopping errands
so she won't have to spend hours on a bus. We each
love choosing birthday gifts and little surprises
for the other throughout the year.
One side benefit of our across town friendship: I
am learning new routes and places I never otherwise
would have known about! I am expanding my horizons.
Though I am an empty-nester and now have quite a bit
of free time on my hands, Compeer and Juanita have
made me realize how meaningful it is to be a Compeer
volunteer. I can still make a positive difference
in someone's life, and it's a great feeling. However,
at the end of every outing, Juanita gives me a big
hug and tells me she loves me. The feeling is definitely
mutual.
Mary Ann Hite Compeer Volunteer
- Danny & Larry
Our birth dates are only a few days apart, but
my friend Larry and I have a lot more in common. We
both enjoy hiking, so we often trudge to the top of
Kennesaw Mountain. We enjoy the exercise, the view
of Atlanta’s skyline to the south, and the mountains
to the north. We both get excited about buying new
music, so we often search the bins at the used cd
stores, or check out cds from the library. Sometimes
we draw or paint. We enjoy bowling or movies too,
but they make it hard to have a conversation. As an
introvert, I admire Larry’s fearless interaction with
people he meets. He drifts easily into conversations
and is proud to tell a complete stranger all about
himself. He takes a lot of pride in doing his job
well and bringing home a paycheck. He recently lost
his job as a bagboy and has a new job sorting and
boxing. He is hopeful about getting a job with more
social interaction. For a long time I thought that
Larry’s condition had left him without a sense of
humor. But one day we were hiking and I made a silly
exaggeration, and I heard him chuckle. I suddenly
realized how much my mood sets the tone for the time
we spend together. If I’m acting too serious, if I’m
obsessing about work, or if my mind is somewhere else,
then I’m not going to be a very good friend. Being
with Larry is helping me learn to live in the present
moment, and to be a better friend to all my friends.
His fearlessness, gentle nature, optimism, and faith
have been a real inspiration to me. I’m thankful to
have Larry as a friend.
Danny...
- Jane & Rosemary
When I first said yes to writing this article
about my friend Jane, I thought I could just sit down
and write on paper the words that best describe Jane
in my heart. Well, this wasn’t the case. I’m not at
all sure I can do my feelings for Jane justice by
putting them into words, but I’ll sure try. Jane and
I have shared many interesting hours together. Whether
it’s just having lunch together and talking about
the countries she will or has already traveled to.
These far away places come alive to me through her.
She even sends me postcards from these places too.
I just love that. But she is also always willing to
share the hard times with me too. Like when I went
to court for custody of my grandchildren, there were
people there for the children, but Jane was there
for me. I could not have made it through, in any kind
of shape, worth anything at all, without her support.
When the baby got sick, she was there for us day and
night. She never needs to be asked, she just does,
without fan fare, whatever she can to help. Jane says
she has been blessed, well she shares that blessing
with me and my family. She is my ray of light in what
can be a dark and painful existence. Her gifts are
compassion, honesty, understanding, and the ability
to accept people for who they are and where they’re
at. But most of all she is straight forward. She says
what she feels and how she sees things and then leaves
it alone. She is very persistent, but not at all pushy.
I have so much respect for her. I see her as a complete
woman and person. Many things have been easier for
me to cope with because of her friendship. THANK YOU
MY DEAR FRIEND!! And I thank God also for a place
like Compeer. Without your work, people like me would
not have Janes in our lives. God bless you all!!
Rosemary...
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